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        家長代表在畢業典禮的講話|愛永遠都在
        2019年06月17日

         

        尊敬的老師們,親愛的家長們、同學們,

        感謝你們,讓我有機會同你們一起分享這個美妙的日子。在座的父母們定和我一樣,見姑娘衣香鬢影、小伙子玉樹臨風,我見猶愛。我想在座的父母估計沒有一個人的高中畢業典禮有過如此的風華絕代。

        首先恭喜孩子們高中畢業,開啟新的人生旅程!恭喜國交今年又是大學申請大豐收的一年!在此也恭喜家長們,開啟另外一段牽掛的時光!

         

        入學一幕宛在昨日,而今天就是畢業典禮。孩子們共同學習成長的四年也是家長們共同學習成長的四年。每一年的美食節、音樂會,喊樓、潑水節最投入的、啦啦隊最響亮的、照片轟炸最多的是家長,給孩子們無數后援支持、積極捐贈的是家長;在群里徹夜長談的是家長,一個話題能激起無數漣漪的是家長;自然,最八卦的也是我們家長。在這個焦慮的時代,SCIE的家長是相對幸運的:家長群特意交混了不同年級的家長、熱情開放的傳幫帶家長風氣讓各色小群風生水起,無論怎樣特質的家長,都能迅速找到適合自己的組織;任何一個家長無厘頭的焦慮問題都能得到家委、其他家長以及學姐學長們無私的回應與關注;我們在焦慮中相互安慰、相互分享、相互吐槽、互灌雞湯,焦慮能回應是如此幸福,它大大遞減了焦慮也讓我們收獲了可以相伴終身的無私友誼。

         

        有幸做了三年家委,有幸成為學校理事會倆年列席成員之一,我得以近距離去體驗這所小小的學校:身處繁華似錦、煙火氣十足的城中村,孩子們外賣自由,手機在手,自由很多,卻不能隨意遲到缺課;它很小,謂方寸之地;她太舊,各種設施總被操心的爹媽吐槽;沒有校服的規定,所以學生每天的衣著都是五花八門;從不干涉男女生的交往,所以花前月下的情侶可以自由成雙成對;每年音樂會高潮的猥瑣舞,各班各自猥瑣,老師們提前體貼退席,家長們又愛又恨;學生僅夠一千,卻上百俱樂部,無論你多普通只要愿意都能為一部之長,但你必須自己為留住俱樂部的成員而絞盡腦汁;一進校門的新生,微信瞬間加遍全校同學乃至遠隔重洋的學姐學長;孩子們需要自學、需要自己找題練習,但是交作業的時間和計算GPA,老師卻寸步不讓……所有這些簡單的細節,匯集成了我眼中的國交:我們可以吐槽她很多很多,可我們也可以愛她很多很多:因為管制易,沃土難得;呵斥易,平等難給;說教易,包容不易;萬事替孩子先做容易,完全讓孩子自己對自己負責不易;贊嘆牛娃容易,給普通娃真正的舞臺不易。是的,真正的教育潤物無聲,涓涓溪流匯成大海,感恩國交,她自由與原則并存、教學與自學共舞、給與學生自由飛揚的舞臺,從而激發了孩子內心的驅動力、給與了他們挑戰世界舞臺的心理營養。

         

        好吧,接下來第二樂章是送上門的忠告。盡管這樣的忠告幾乎注定被孩子們吐槽和忘記,還是要送給心愛的小伙子們和姑娘們:

        1、培養或加深一項愛好;愛上一個運動

        培養或加深一項愛好讓自己的靈魂變得更為有趣;愛上運動,你會變得更加美好和健康。一個愛好和健康的身體是幸福感最重要指標,也是艱難時刻自我光明的助緣之力。當然,SCIE的姑娘們小伙子們今天秀出的美好身材讓我對此充滿信心。


        2、珍惜大學求學的光陰,珍惜高中時代和大學時代的終生摯友。


        對于即將到來的大學時代,龍應臺說過,人生中唯一的自由時段,容許你義無反顧、赴湯蹈火、全身燃燒地瘋狂求知,就只有這四年。所以趁著青春正好請傾注你的深情,跟隨你的愛好,珍惜求學的時光,它將成為你們一生中最美好的歲月,也將成為你實現自由在高處、擁有更多人生選擇權利的基石同時請珍惜高中時代和大學時所結交的摯友,他們是你們共同求學的同行者,是低沉時吐槽傾訴的對象,在你眼淚婆娑時他們的擁抱以及與你的徹夜長談都將為你的青春帶來無法衡量的價值。


        3、希望理解這片土地的歷史、現實和傷痛,保天下,匹夫之賤與有責焉

                錢穆在戰爭時期為青年人寫《國史大綱》說過,對自己的歷史有所知的人,必然會有一種對歷史的“溫情與敬意”。希望你們無論在哪里都能帶著溫情和敬意去面對自己國家的歷史,這是你們于世界立足、贏得尊重的根基;也希望你們帶著溫情和敬意去理解腳下這片廣袤的土地的現實和傷痛,看到她的光鮮、歡樂、絢爛,更要懂得她的悲劇、憂患、殘酷你們的爸爸媽媽幸運見證了中國取得輝煌成就的四十年,也因此擁有相對更好的資源、更寬廣的眼界,站在我們肩上的你們自應更有理由有一份窮則獨善其身、達則兼濟天下、為天地立心、為生民立命的家國情懷,并為此知行合一,而不僅僅只做一個精致的利己主義者。勿言人微,雖然他形單影只,但是世界因為他的存在而豐腴。在時代裹挾之下的每一個人都一直在以各自或宏大或細微的方式,改善著自己和身邊人的生活,社會由此而善,由此惠及自我。我深信,擁有橫跨中西的學識和見識的你們,未來對我們這個民族、國家乃至世界定有更大的擔當。

         

        4、別忘記,爹娘的愛永遠都在那里。


        世間父母之愛,別離為緣。在外,請對爹娘多一份問候,也對自己多一份寬容和善待。無論你光芒閃耀還是凡人一介,萬物生長各自高貴,一定牢記,對爹媽而言,幸福就是尋常的人兒依舊。無論你念或者不念,愛都在那里;你遠或者不遠,愛都在那里;你跟與不跟,愛都在那里,不舍不棄。

         

        最后,衷心祝愿國交揚長改短,繼續努力,成為百年名校!恭祝各位校領導、老師們、家長們萬事如意祝愿心愛的孩子們心靈堅固平安順遂,前程似錦!

         

                                          謝謝大家!

                                          

          

        Dear teachers, parents and students,

        Thank you for having me here today to share with all of you this amazing night. I’m sure many parents, like me, seeing our stunning daughters and handsome sons, feel nothing but pride. I don’t think any of the parents present here enjoyed this kind of grand event when we graduated.

        First, congratulations to all the students for graduating from high school and starting a new journey of their life! Congratulations to SCIE for another successful year! And congratulations to all parents for starting yet another new age of worries and concerns.
         

        The day when our children first came to SCIE seems like yesterday, and yet today we are already at the graduation ceremony. The four years that our children spent studying and growing up together are also the same for us. Every year, at Food Festival, graduation shout or water fight, the most devoted, the loudest cheerleaders, the most productive photographers are parents; the ones offering most support and donations are parents; the ones spending long evenings chatting in WeChat groups are parents; the ones that are easily provoked by a single sentence are parents; and of course, we are also the gossipiest ones. In an age of anxiety, the parents in SCIE are relatively lucky: we’ve got parents from different grades mixed up in the WeChat groups, and the tradition of support and help adds dynamism to all kinds of small groups. No matter what kind of parent you are, you can find your suitable group. Any ungrounded worries from any parent are responded by Parent Association, other parents or senior students. We comfort, share with, roast and encourage each other. It is such a relief that our anxiety is responded. It soothes our nerves and grants us friendship that can go on forever.

         

        Being a member of the Parent Association for three years and a member of the Board of Council for two years, I’ve had the honor to experience this small school closely. It’s located in a bustling area of Shuiwei urban village. Students can order take-out easily and play around with their phones. They have lots of freedom, but cannot be late for school or absent from classes.The campus is small, almost tiny; It’s quite old, and some anxious parents are always complaining about the facilities. No uniform rules, so students here can wear whatever they want at school. No interference of interactions between boys and girls, so we can see pairs wandering around. The CNY concert superman dance, which often makes teachers walk away considerately, is something many parents love-hate. The school has no more than 1000 students, and yet there are over 100 ECA clubs. If you wish, you can be the leader of a club no matter how ordinary you are, but you must rack your brain to retain your club members. Once the students enter the campus, they connect on WeChat with almost every other student in the school and even former schoolmates form overseas. Students may need to study and finish exercises by themselves, but when it comes to deadlines or GPA, teachers will never make a concession. All these simple details make up the SCIE in my eyes. We complain a lot, but we also love it a lot. Controlling the children is easy, while having a free land is not; reproaching is easy, while equality is not; preaching is easy, while tolerance is not; taking care of everything for our children is easy, while letting them be responsible for themselves is not; praising those outstanding students is easy, while providing a real platform for the more ordinary ones is not. Yes, the real education is like the gentle spring rain bathing the world, or the small streams that make a sea. We appreciate SCIE, for the coexistence of freedom and principles, teaching and self-study. It provides a free stage to students, inspires the inner motivations of them, and gives them the mental power to challenge the world.

         

        Ok, then the second chapter is the advice to the door. Although such advice is almost destined to be spit and forgotten by our children, it is still to be given to our beloved boys and girls:

         

        1. Cultivate or furtherdevelopa hobby. Fall in love with a sport.

        Cultivating or further developing a hobby will make your mind more interestingand falling in love with sports will make you better and healthier. A hobby and a healthy body are the most important indicators of happiness, and they can also be the power of self-help in difficult times. Of course, the beautiful figuresthat SCIE's girls and boys showed today makes me full of confidence.

         

        2.Cherish the time of university study. Cherish the lifelong friends from high school and college.

        For the upcoming college life, Long Yingtai, a famous Chinese writer, said: "The only free time in life that allows you to dive head first, to go through heaven and hell, and to madly seek knowledge is these four years only." As precious as youth is, please show you passion, follow your heart, cherish the time of study, andit will be the best years of your life, as well as the cornerstone to pursue better life and have more choices. At the same time, please cherish the friends you make in high school and college. They are your companions in study and the listeners when you are down. Their hugs and late nigh talks when you are in tears will add unmeasurable value to your youth.

         

        3. Try to understand the history, reality and pain of our homeland. We all share the responsibility of protecting the country, rich or poor.

         

        As Qian Mu mentioned in his book History Outlinewritten for youngsters during wartime, those who know about their history carry a warm feeling and respect for it. I hope that you can view the history of your own country with warmth and respect wherever you go, as this is what gets you a place in the world and esteem from others. I would hope that you understand the reality and pain of our homeland, being able to see its glamor, joy and gorgeousness, while at the same time understanding the tragedy, hardship and cruelty it has suffered. Your parents have been so fortunate to witness China’s splendid achievements in the past forty years, and therefore have more access to better resources and a wider vision. As for you, our next generation, you have every reason to hold on to the creed that you must stay noble when you are poor and care about the world when you are better off. You should aim to help ordain the conscience of the world and provide guidance for people to decide their own destiny. We hope you could walk the talk and not to be a sophisticated egoist. Though everyone seems to be alone and insignificant in the world, the world is complemented by every individual. Every one of us has been trying to improve the lives of ourselves and others in our own ways, big or small, constantly benefitting ourselves and the society. I do believe you, with a combined vision of Chinese and western cultures, bear more responsibilities for our nation and the world.  

         

         

        4. Do not forget that the love from your parents will always be here

        Parental love is a love to let go. If you’re far from home, please send your warmest regards to your parents, and be nice and tolerant to yourself. No matter how ordinary or outstanding you are, as everything is extraordinary in its own way, please remember, you are just who you are - the pure happiness to your parents. No matter you remember it or not, regardless of how far you are, wherever you go, their love is still here and will never leave you behind. 

         

        Finally, I sincerely wish that by improving even more and keeping on the great work, SCIE would one day become a century-old famous school! Best wishes to all school leaders, teachers and parents. May our beloved children have a strong heart and a bright future! Thank you!   

         

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